To those I have walked away from:
Whether you love or hate me is out of my control.
An explanation of my life, past or present, isn’t owed to you.
Your behavior says more about you than it does me.
You will never get to know me know if you’re committed to misunderstanding me.
The consequences of your actions are yours to bear.
Your opinions of me are none of my business.
Seeing how much I can tolerate is not the true test of my character.
Not every action deserves a reaction.
It would’ve been great if we had gotten along, but it’s okay that we don’t.
Your refusal to accept me is your problem, not mine.
I don’t have to put myself at the center of the mess you created.
Your inability to accept accountability doesn’t change the truth.
I make no apologies for protecting my family against anyone or anything, always.
Your attempts to downplay my accomplishments don’t strip me of my successes.
My self-worth doesn’t need to be proved.
Your unfair judgment and criticism are simply projections of your own insecurities and shortcomings.
I cannot make you respect me, but I can distance myself from further disrespect.
I can cut off a relationship that brings only pain and turmoil for my own peace.
You don’t get to tell me how I should heal from the pain you caused, because hurt hurts.
Hurt people hurt people.
I hope you find the answers you need.
I hope you find the closure I’ve found.